The Best Massages for Men Who’ve Never Gotten One Before

If you’ve never had a massage, you’re not alone. A lot of guys haven’t. Whether it’s the idea of undressing, not knowing what to say, or just not being sure if massage is “your thing,” there are plenty of reasons it’s easy to put off.

But here’s the truth: massage doesn’t have to feel awkward or fancy or like something you only do on vacation. It can just be a really smart way to recharge your body and mind—and Aescape makes that first step way easier.

Why Aescape Makes Sense for First-Timers

Let’s say this upfront: Aescape is a massage experience powered by robotics and personalized by you. That means no small talk, no awkward moments, and no wondering if you’re doing it “right.” You choose the session you want, set your pressure, and adjust things like music and focus areas in real time. It’s as close as you can get to full control without giving yourself the massage.

There’s a reason thousands of people have started their wellness journey with Aescape—it’s simple, private, and surprisingly effective. Whether you're easing back into fitness or just tired of carrying stress in your shoulders all week, this is a massage that meets you where you're at.

You can book something short and targeted (like a 15-minute upper back reset), or go all in with a full 60-minute back-and-glutes session. See your options here.

What to Expect (And What Not to Worry About)

This isn’t a candle-lit spa with whispering and whale sounds. Aescape feels more like a wellness tech experience than a traditional massage table.

You show up, get scanned, and the system adjusts to your body. From there, you’re in the driver’s seat—literally choosing how intense you want the pressure to feel. You can even pause or skip sections if something doesn’t feel great. No judgment. No guesswork.

You stay clothed (yes, really), and everything happens in a private room, so you can fully relax without the mental load of “how does this work?”

Why It’s Worth It

Massages aren’t just about feeling good in the moment. They can help with focus, mood, sleep, and all the low-key tension you’ve probably been ignoring for months. Massage can even help calm the nervous system and support mental wellness—something more of us could use.

And if you’re the kind of person who trains hard (or sits at a desk all day), regular massage can help your body bounce back faster and keep you from feeling stiff or burnt out. This post on why recovery matters more than you think explains it perfectly.

Bottom line: if you’ve been curious, now’s a good time to try it. You don’t need to know what you’re doing. You just need to show up, press start, and let your body thank you later.

Let us know you enjoyed this read by booking a massage and using code BLOG for $10 off your first session (30 minutes and up!). Wanna share your thoughts? We’d love to hear from you. Give us a shout at @LetsAescape on social!