The “Bare Minimum” Self-Care List (for When You’re Exhausted)

13 Jul 2025
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Let’s be honest: On some days, even brushing your teeth feels like a heroic feat.

Maybe your brain is foggy, your body’s heavy, or your to-do list is glaring at you like it knows you haven’t made eye contact with it in three days. That’s okay. You’re not lazy, you’re spent. And when you’re running on fumes, the last thing you need is a 13-step morning routine that requires lemon water, journaling, and interpretive dance.

This is your permission slip to do less. Here’s your “bare minimum” self-care list for those "barely-holding-it-together" days. Gentle, doable, and zero guilt required.

1. Sit Down. Seriously, Just Sit.

We underestimate how much our bodies crave stillness. Set a timer for 5 minutes. No scrolling. No music. Just you, the couch, and gravity doing its thing. It’s wild how grounding it can be to simply stop moving.

2. Drink Water. Like, Actual Water.

Coffee doesn’t count. (Yes, it hurts us to say it too.)

Even a small glass can shift your energy just enough to make the next step feel possible. Leave a bottle next to your bed or desk, so it’s practically begging you to take a sip.

3. Choose Comfort Over Productivity

Not forever. Just for right now.

Put on the softest clothes you own. Wrap yourself in that blanket that makes you feel like a baked potato. Let comfort be the win of the day.

4. Let Aescape Help You Feel Human Again

Some moments call for ease, and Aescape gets that. With massage experiences designed to ease stress and promote calm, Aescape is the kind of wellness experience that actually fits into your “I’m-not-doing-anything” mood.

You can even book a session without talking to anyone (hello, introvert’s dream). If 15 minutes is all you’ve got, try something like Glutes & Hamstrings Express Relief. It’s short, sweet, and wildly comforting.

Aescape’s massage experiences are the perfect “do-nothing” self-care move, with just enough doing to remind your body it matters.

5. One Deep Breath

Right now. In through your nose for four… hold for four… out through your mouth for six.

Feels better, doesn’t it?

A Tiny Win You Can Claim

If you made your bed today, that counts. If you answered one email? You're a total hero. Self-care isn’t a finish line; it’s a practice. Even your messiest moments are part of the process.

And if you're looking for more ways to quietly show up for yourself, this piece on movement and the mind-body is a gentle, science-backed nudge.

Some days, your best is a whisper. And that’s more than enough.

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